- So You Were Sent to A.A
- Here’s What A.A. Says About A.A
- If You Have Been “Sent” to A.A
- A.A. and the Courts
- What to Expect at a Meeting
- Proof of Attendance
- Ordered to Attend AA?
- Singleness of Purpose:
- Here is what AA says about AA:
- What is AA’s role in the process?
- Here are a few points to remember:
- And finally…
- More questions? Write or call us!
So You Were Sent to A.A
Many of us were sent to our first A.A. meetings by judges, employers, counselors, or some other authority as a result of being arrested for drunken driving, family disputes, or some other problem involving alcohol. If you’ve come to A.A. at the direction (or suggestion) of someone else, you probably have some questions.
Here’s What A.A. Says About A.A
Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. A.A.
is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes.
Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.
Copyright ©The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.
Reprinted with permission.
Millions of people have found recovery through A.A., including many who were sent by professionals. There are A.A. meetings in virtually every country in the world, from Australia to Zambia. While some who are sent to A.A. attend only the required meetings and never come back, others keep coming back because they find that A.A. helps them live life without alcohol.
If You Have Been “Sent” to A.A
- If you have been sent to A.A. meetings, it is because someone believes there is evidence that you may have a drinking problem.
- A.A. meetings fall into two categories: Open and Closed.
- We recommend you attend Open meetings, unless you believe you are an alcoholic and would to become a member. You are a member when you say you are — nobody else will make that decision for you.
A.A. and the Courts
- A.A. is not part of the court system. We do not work for the courts or the police department.
- A.A does not “recruit” members. We do not ask the courts to send people to meetings — they do so because they believe A.A. can help.
- If you are court-ordered to attend A.A., A.A. had nothing to do with the court’s decision. We do cooperate with professionals to inform them of who we are, and what we do and do not do.
What to Expect at a Meeting
- You are a welcome guest. We ask that you conduct yourself in a civil and responsible manner. Please refrain from talking while others are sharing, using cell phones, or other distractive behavior during meetings. Alcoholism is a matter of life and death for us.
- If you have any questions, feel free to ask before or after the meeting. You will always find someone willing to talk to you and answer your questions.
- In A.A. we respect all members’ anonymity. While you are free to take, repeat and use any of the ideas or suggestions that you hear at a meeting, please do not identify anyone you heard or saw there. We will do the same for you.
- We cannot help with any other substance abuse problems (drugs, food, etc). There are other programs specifically designed for these addictions.
- There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. We are fully self-supporting through our own contributions. We pass the basket to pay our rent and expenses.
Proof of Attendance
- If you’ve been asked to provide proof of attendance (a signature card), please understand that A.A. is not allied with the court system — we are not required to sign court cards.
- While many meetings will sign cards, some will not. It’s up to each group to decide. If you arrive at a meeting a few minutes early, you can ask if someone will sign your card.
- If someone agrees to sign your court card, they will probably just sign their first name or initials. We are personally anonymous.
Being “sent” to A.A. does not make you an alcoholic.
People may point out indications that you have a drinking problem — loss of control, driving under the influence, arrests, lost jobs, broken marriages or relationships, blackouts, the shakes, etc. Only you can decide that you are an alcoholic.
If you think that you are an alcoholic then we encourage you to keep coming back.
There are links to pamphlets in the sidebar to the right. The answers to many of the questions you might have may be found in them. Please take a moment to read some of them. Many of the links are directly to the literature area of the www.AA.org website. You can find other pamphlets and information on that site.
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Ordered to Attend AA?
Although the strength of our program lies in the voluntary nature of membership in AA, many of us first attended meetings because we were forced to. You probably have many questions about Alcoholics Anonymous, just as we did. We hope this page answers some of them.
Singleness of Purpose:
Some professionals refer to alcoholism and drug addiction as “substance abuse” or “chemical dependency.” Non-alcoholics are, therefore, sometimes introduced to A.A. and encouraged to attend A.A. meetings. Anyone may attend open A.A. meetings, but only those with a drinking problem may attend closed meetings.
A renowned psychiatrist, who served as a nonalcoholic trustee of the A.A. General Service Board, made the following statement: “Singleness of purpose is essential to the effective treatment of alcoholism.
The reason for such exaggerated focus is to overcome denial. The denial associated with alcoholism is cunning, baffling, and powerful and affects the patient, helper, and the community.
Unless alcoholism is kept relentlessly in the foreground, other issues will usurp everybody’s attention.”
Here is what AA says about AA:
“Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking.
There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization, or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy, neither endorses nor opposes any causes.
Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.”
The Alcoholics Anonymous Preamble – Printed with permission of The AA Grapevine®, Inc
Millions of people have found recovery through AA, including many who were sent by courts or their employers.
There are AA meetings in virtually every country in the world, from Australia to Zambia, and from Ireland to Russia.
While some who are sent to AA attend the required number of meetings and never return, others keep coming back because they find that AA helps them live comfortably without alcohol.
What is AA’s role in the process?
Alcoholics Anonymous is not part of the judicial system. We do not work with the courts or the police department. We do not ask the courts to send people to us. When people do show up with court papers, we are not responsible for making sure the people are sober.
If a judge, court, school, or employer has sent you to AA meetings, it is because they believe there is evidence that you have a drinking problem. We had nothing to do with their decision-in fact, AA has no opinion as to whether you have a drinking problem or not.
If, however, you want to stop drinking, AA has a solution.
Here are a few points to remember:
- If you have a desire to stop drinking, you may consider yourself an AA member. Otherwise, you will be a welcome guest at Open meetings. Please do not attend Closed meetings if you don’t consider yourself a member or have a desire to stop drinking.
In our printed Meeting Directory and on this Website all meetings are clearly marked as to whether they are Open or Closed. For further information please go to our Meetings section.
- While most groups will sign court papers, this is for each individual group to decide. Since AA is not allied with the court system, AA is not required to do the court’s work.
- If a chairperson or other group member agrees to sign your papers, they will probably sign with their first name or initials. We are personally anonymous. We are not court employees.
- If you have questions, please ask them before or after the meeting. You can always find someone willing to talk to you and answer your questions.
- The people who voluntarily attend AA meetings are alcoholics. We come from all walks of life. We treat each other with respect.
- In AA we honor all members’ anonymity. While you are free to talk about or use any ideas that you hear at a meeting, please do not ever identify any person you hear or see there.
- There are no dues or fees for AA membership.
We are totally self-supporting through the voluntary contributions of our members. If you do not consider yourself a member, please refrain from contributing.
- No one in AA can tell you that you are an alcoholic.
Some people can point out indications that are symptomatic of a drinking problem: loss of control, drunk driving, arrests, lost jobs, broken marriages or relationships, blackouts, etc. But only you can decide if you actually are an alcoholic, and if that’s your decision, we invite you to keep coming back.
We are here to help anyone who wants to get sober and stay sober, regardless of how they got here. It is a part of what we call our Twelfth Step work in AA. If you have decided you want what we have, please keep coming back.
More questions? Write or call us!
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This material has been approved by the Dallas Intergroup Association Board of Trustees, but not by AA World Services, Inc., except for specific excerpts from AA publications, which are reprinted with permission.